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@flatCockRoachIs it appropriate for my 🤏sister who is in 7th grade to date a freshman?
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c9ldasksshit
What’s freshmen for you? It’s 9th grade for me. And that’s a little weird but there’s places where freshmen is 10th and that’s definitely weird.
475d ago Reply
LadySputnik
Conflicted 😂 because if we are talking strictly ages, then I would say it's fine. Around here freshman is 9th grade, but sometimes 10th grade is also a freshman depending on where. But either way, I see the age difference itself as not being a big deal, since 9th grade would be 2 years older and 10th would be 3 years, which is a totally normal age gap in relationships. HOWEVER, the problem comes in with development and environment and all that stuff. Even one year can be huge for development in kids in these age ranges, as they're most likely going through puberty. Not to mention if they are junior high and high school, their environments and peers are vastly different. I mean I know middle schoolers these days know too much about certain things as a result of Internet, but that's all the more reason why it could be dangerous. It wouldn't be surprising for this relationship to turn physical, whether willingly or unwillingly. Which is very dangerous since kids that age often times dont receive proper education about safety and whatnot, they just know how to do it, not how to do it safely (mostly). And the idea of consent in a relationship is also usually a foreign concept. So that would be worrying if it were my sibling, and would be my primary concern. Secondary concern is how easily relationships at this age turn unhealthy and toxic, because neither one knows anything about the world really or how to make a relationship work, so kids those ages tend to have a self centered view of how love and romance works based on what they've seen or read. Granted, I'm 25 now so middle school and high school have definitely changed since I've gone through, but just because kids at those ages THINK they know better than previous gens at that age, well, let me just say that every kid that age thinks they know more. Anyways, in the end, I chose "Nah" mostly due to the physical concern. These are tender ages and the possibility of SA and/or pregnancy are real and valid concerns.
475d ago Reply
LeoDabzz69
No
475d ago Reply
@MutedCloveWould you date me fr fr?
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Probably should have mentioned I'm male and bi
359d ago Reply
FullGrudge
If you a female yes
339d ago Reply
MutedClove
@libadomy it says I'm already following you
338d ago Reply
jOwieseph.
@MutedClove fr
359d ago Reply
jOwieseph.
@MutedClove ♡
359d ago Reply
jOwieseph.
R u high
359d ago Reply
MutedClove
@FullGrudge no, male
339d ago Reply
MutedClove
@BunBun6883 thanks
340d ago Reply
BunBun6883
Would if we went to the same school
340d ago Reply
PlainSquash
Depends on how old you are
358d ago Reply
MutedClove
@jOwieseph. I wish
359d ago Reply
MutedClove
@PlainSquash 16 so probably too young
340d ago Reply
libadomy
@MutedClove oh? Ok.
338d ago Reply
libadomy
Sure if you want i a always available I have followed you so you may follow me back ask me questions and whatever. We may chat if you just want that. Anything that makes ya happy makes me happy you know?
338d ago Reply
MutedClove
@libadomy thanks
338d ago Reply
simpmaster3000
It might be a little illegal because im 12 but age is just a number 😉
315d ago Reply
jOwieseph.
@MutedClove ♤
359d ago Reply
MutedClove
@jOwieseph. Thanks
359d ago Reply
@bbwloverIt creepy for a man to cold approach a random woman he finds attractive?
1 Comments| SharejOwieseph.
R u high
359d ago Reply
bbwlover
@urmomishot why is it weird if she's an adult?
359d ago Reply
urmomishot
@WeeklyClang not weird persay.. I would just find it a little scary lol
359d ago Reply
urmomishot
Yes. Even if she’s not a minor imo
359d ago Reply
@kayleileroy11oldHave any of you guys looked at mister hopps and thoughe's super scary
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@EntireGougeI'm taking shrooms tn show I stay home or go somewhere
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SkyeIsHere
U shouldn't take em:)
359d ago Reply
InnerUtopia
How much though? Too much i can barely operate a remote control.
358d ago Reply
ClayRealName
May I have some please
352d ago Reply
FallowQuill
Go wherever you feel safe my friend
331d ago Reply
KrazyK4U
Stay where ever your at.
344d ago Reply
@kayleileroy11oldI need friends will u be my friends
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ChubbyCatBee
Lets
346d ago Reply
@rxslemonadeif your in a talkingstage, is it bad when someone shows too much interest
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DatedLawyer
@IThinkIFoundIt it's okay I've definitely been there I'd recommend u to show u r plenty interested but also try to keep cool keep them guessing about u it'll keep them interested
334d ago Reply
DatedLawyer
@IThinkIFoundIt well don't say that maybe u need to find who really reciprocates ur emotion as well
334d ago Reply
LuridCrunch
Communication is key. If you feel they are moving too fast say so but respect their thoughts. If they don't respect yours THEN it is a problem
342d ago Reply
IThinkIFoundIt
Im really interested in these responses because I feel like I screw it up all the time.
352d ago Reply
YourDirty1nder
I fuck on the first date
346d ago Reply
ruhighrly
R u high
344d ago Reply
IThinkIFoundIt
@DatedLawyer Thanks! And it will.
334d ago Reply
jOwieseph.
R u high
347d ago Reply
jjeckman
Over sharing can be bad but idk im not good at keeping ppl intrested anyway so dont listen to me
275d ago Reply
YourDirty1nder
@ruhighfr fr
344d ago Reply
UrgentRail
If they seem way to clingy to quickly I ghost them because it gives me toxic vides
338d ago Reply
SevenGreen
Over thinking things often ruin things
327d ago Reply
IThinkIFoundIt
@DatedLawyer i try and I fail. I think I'm too eager? Idk. Im generally the one who shows too much interest.
334d ago Reply
DatedLawyer
@IThinkIFoundIt i don't know😅 but I hope this helps you in the future 😊
334d ago Reply
IThinkIFoundIt
@DatedLawyer that's fair. Im usually an open book but there is nothing wrong with a little mystery. Why can't I meet cool people like you?
334d ago Reply
SolidBastion
GlumVandal's stance Plus it matter if they're talking about themselves or you a lot. If they're focused on themselves only or you only that's a bad sign. If there's give and take about both persons interests, then it's a good sign.
352d ago Reply
GlumVandal
Depends on how much interest we are talking about, if your version of "to much" is the person responding within say ten minutes ecery time I wouldnt say thats a bad thing whatsoever. But it can be a bad thing when that interest begins to seem like obsession, like say sending 30 messages in the span of 10 minutes. It all depends
359d ago Reply
ruhighrly
@YourDirty1nder fr
344d ago Reply
CrookedCowl
I feel like a lot of very affectionate people get shut down too quickly these days for being "too interested." I would say I am one such person and I am lucky to have found my wife who is receptive to my interest. You have to remember that those "butterflies" eventually fade a bit. If they're only displaying moderate interest now, how much less will it be later? I still flirt with my wife almost as relentlessly as I did when we first got together. If I have a nice 😄, loving 😍, or cheeky thought 😏 about her then I'm going to tell her. I'm not going to wait or hold back. Best I can do is text it to her if it's too inappropriate to say out loud in the moment. I love teasing her with cheeky texts 😏 when we're at her moms house just because I like to see her squirm and get all worked up before we get home 😜
334d ago Reply
@PopcornPuppyHow long does it take for you to type a comment (thinking wording etc)
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WintryFabric
It depends if it's worth my time.
359d ago Reply