Is being a nonchalant person a good thing or a bad thing

LadySputnik
For anyone voting or commenting who doesn't know the actual definition, "nonchalant" basically means someone is relaxed or calm. I don't think this is an inherently bad thing, no. After all, I think being nonchalant is 100x better than being high energy because I just get overstimulates around high energy people fast lol. Being a generally nonchalant person doesn't mean you lack any emotions. It doesn't mean you don't care about anything. It doesn't many you can't feel sympathy or empathy. It doesn't mean you can't be passionate about something. So why would I say being nonchalant is bad? If I did I'd basically be saying I wished you were stressed or anxious, and I'd never wish that on anyone lol. I'd say it's a good thing. And if you're someone lacking in emotions, that's less due to a nonchalant personality and more likely due to a battle with mental health, so that scenario isn't relevant to this question. tl;dr No, it's fine. There's nothing wrong with being calm or relaxed. In fact, those types of people tend to be decently popular because their calmness can help anxious people also feel calm. So yeah lol
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RottenDagger
I'm a pretty nonchalant person on the outside, like nothing really seems to phase me but internally I got hella anxiety
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will wood reference!!!!!!!!!!!
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SavageRavage47
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SavageRavage47
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GroggyHook
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MuteSpine
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DevoutWimp
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HindAtom
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Elusive_Fruit
That picnic sounds good
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Darrickevans
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HindAtom
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Darrickevans
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DevoutWimp
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