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@akwardnobodyThe railroad question. Save 5 or your most loved one?
Basically a railroad goes through the tracks to kill either the 5 innocent people or kill the person you love the most. Who are you going save? ... read more
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@GroundZeroPeople who play Metroidvanias, what's your best out of these
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TheBorkyBrad
Out of these i've only played Hollow Knight but I recommend Blasphamous and Valfaris!
425d ago Reply
GroundZero
@TheBorkyBrad I've been meaning to check it out for a while now, is it really that good?
425d ago Reply
@akwardnobodyWhich size of dog?
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lilmayonnaise
I have mobility problems and have a hard time caring for my small dogs, so I couldn't imagine taking care of anything more than 15lbs
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akwardnobody
@i.hit.the.bong. A regular dog. A loyal companion that loves you. A best friend.
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ShyAffair
@akwardnobody Dogs don't have love to give. And friends only bring you down
495d ago Reply
i.hit.the.bong.
What kind of "dog" are we talking about?
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@SnowballBunnyis it normal for my mom not to feel like my mom anymore?
I don't know lately I've just felt kind of off. I have severe depression and other mental issues but I don't talk to a therapist or anything because I don't like opening up about my feelings. so basically I'm my moms 6th child that she birthed out of seven. my father was a very abusive guy and wasn't a good person to my mom so maybe that could stir some hate towards me for her. I have a little brother ill call, Z and an older sister I'll call D. they both live with me and Z's dad also live with us. so it's me, my mom, Z, D and Z's dad. My mom and Z's dad aren't together anymore but I've always seen him as my dad or even father figure because I grew up with him. I've always been a pretty miserable kid. I grew up poor, ugly and fat. I've always gotten bullied which ranged from teasing to people fake asking me out to spraying cologne in my face to make me have an asthma attack. Violence was pretty normal for me to see honestly and maybe thats why I'm violent. Anyways for some reason Z's dad always got the final say. If I asked for a friend over and my mom said yes but then suddenly he said no I was magically not allowed to have a friend over anymore. Crazy thing is, the nigga is homeless. He's leaving off of my mom's shit, in her house, using her fucking car and he thinks he has the right to boss me around. and I honestly don't like it because I can't do shit. well recently they had gotten fired and got a new job where they work 2nd shift, so I don't see them a lot. I'm stuck taking care of my dog and little brother and my older sister does stuff too. We almost never see my mom anymore other than the weekends. When we do though life feels like hell. Like honestly all I do is get yelled at. I cry a lot because im a really sensitive person and always no matter what my mom said to me I always loved her and was there for her because I know she's fighting her own battles. But I tried talking to her about some personal deep down shit and she basically told me she doesn't care, to not say that because it's rude and insensitive to others (part of it was about my grandma's treatment and racist remarks to my friends, I'm black and Mexican and so is my friend but my grandma is only mexican), and to shut up because im trying to guilt trip her and that I'm a terrible person. then she told me that those aren't my feelings and opinions and that's not how I feel. It was so awkward for me and I just went in my room and laid down and cried. For some reason I wanted nothing to do with my mom anymore and for the first time I genuinely felt like I hate her. I didn't want to be around her anymore and I just couldn't do it. It was so bad I actually relapsed on 3 different things. I have a history of cutting myself and doing drugs and its pretty bad. My parents found out about me cutting myself and were nice to me for 3 days before going back to normal. I feel like everyone hates me. My younger brother Z tells me I'm worthy and should kill myself and that I'm equal to a piece of trash to everyone in this family. My sister D likes to put me down to make herself feel better and tell people I beat the shit out of her. My mom never corrects them but if I tell Z to shut up I immediately get yelled at. I can't count how many times I've gotten punched and hit in the head and face because of that. I also have very bad suicidal thoughts that I think about I least 5 times a day. I've made attempts at taking my life before but always end up to chicken to do it. I'm honestly just so sick of life. I am 14 though so maybe it's just a weird teenage thing. A lot of teens have arguments with their parents so maybe that's it. Z's dad has put his hands on me a lot and seriously hurt me. He's even called me a cow for eating and called me useless. He's also threatened to kill my dog. I cry because of them at least 5 times a day. I just feel like my mom doesn't love me anymore and she doesn't care about me or my feelings. I'm constantly forced to do stuff I don't want to to make others happy. I don't know though maybe it's just me and my head. Maybe everything fine and I'm just crazy. Maybe I'm the asshole and I did something wrong I don't know. I just need advice. I used to be so close with my mom and loved her so much, now she just feels like a stranger and a fond memory that I wish I still had. ... read more
1 Comments| ShareSnowballBunny
@SecretKit I guess but my mom does have bpd which affects her moods but I get what ur saying
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jOwieseph.
@SnoopyDogg yes
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SnowballBunny
@j0wieseph. r u high?
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jOwieseph.
@SnoopyDogg idk 🤷♂️
423d ago Reply
SnowballBunny
@j0wieseph. why not🤨
422d ago Reply
jOwieseph.
@SnoopyDogg shyt cuz I be forgettin
422d ago Reply
SnowballBunny
@j0wieseph. smoking marijuana can cause memory loss and its not good for u
422d ago Reply
SecretKit
Sounds like your family is horrible. I'm sorry
419d ago Reply
SnowballBunny
@SecretKit they aren't to bad, they've all been through lots of struggle, I honestly have worse stories than this lol
419d ago Reply
SecretKit
@SnowballBunny That doesn't matter. That's not an excuse to treat you like crap.
419d ago Reply
SnowballBunny
@SecretKit it's okay and I should rephrase, my mom doesn't hate me she just likes me a little less than her other kids unless it's abt grades or getting into yale
419d ago Reply
SecretKit
@SnowballBunny None of that makes the behavior you described by your whole family ok
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SecretKit
@SnowballBunny Just idk don't defend them abusing you or act like it's reasonable. They have issues. But they shouldn't make them your issues
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jOwieseph.
@SnowballBunny fr
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jOwieseph.
R u high
407d ago Reply
SnowballBunny
@SecretKit I look like my dad, I think that's why my mom hates me
419d ago Reply
SecretKit
@SnowballBunny It's still not your fault and shouldn't be taken out on you. I'm so sorry
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jOwieseph.
R u high
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SnowballBunny
@j0wieseph. do u do this to everyone?
423d ago Reply
@The-Bear-KingIs it wrong to still be in love with someone even if y’all ain’t together
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DazedMaker
Not at all it happens all the time. It just takes time
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ShyAffair
@The-Bear-King overcome emotions in general. Be disppasionate, or at least objective
537d ago Reply
LayLayssofr
I'm still always thinking about him, were friends but we used to be lovers, n I watched him fall in love w someone else, I hate it, I hate her
537d ago Reply
DazedMaker
@The-Bear-King It'll be ok it's difficult to let go of someone you've loved for years. I get it. It's a process that you shouldn't try rushing. Otherwise that creates trauma. I've been through a lot too so I get how it feels and sadly I rushed things and now feel nothing when someone leaves me because I've gotten used to the cheating and abandonment. So the fact that you two were dating for that long means a lot. So you should just try to relax on that situation and just focuse on your current situation and your mental health
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DazedMaker
It'll be ok it's difficult to let go of someone you've loved for years. I get it. It's a process that you shouldn't try rushing. Otherwise that creates trauma. I've been through a lot too so I get how it feels and sadly I rushed things and now feel nothing when someone leaves me because I've gotten used to the cheating and abandonment. So the fact that you two were dating for that long means a lot. So you should just try to relax on that situation and just focuse on your current situation and your mental health
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The-Bear-King
@DazedMaker I know, it just seems like I’m stuck in this funk and I’ve been stuck in it since July of this year 🙁
537d ago Reply
The-Bear-King
I’m really having conflicted feelings these past few months and I’m still in love with my ex gf who I dated for 3 years…I’ve tried to go out with friends and family to do fun things but I can’t seem to feel happy or excited about anything anymore 🙁
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ShyAffair
@SuddenCabana liking isn't love, it's emotional and fleeting. And it obviously wasn't healthy if they aren't over it.
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entraliss
It'd say, It wouldn't be love if you haven't kept liking the same person for years
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@crazyredneckWhat do yall look for in a relationship
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theunknown33
Similarities, loyalty and honestly just someone to do stuff with
425d ago Reply
Solaire704
Honestly and Loyalty. Without those it's just fuck buddies.
425d ago Reply
MuteSpine
A built-in pump.
425d ago Reply
Acai-FurryDragon
A nice flirty male who jus wants to cuddle and be with me and maybe do 18+ :3
425d ago Reply
@akwardnobodyWhat do you focus on more?
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@voidsterr honestly haven't we all?
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FreshAir_
Everything cause I have anxiety😋
488d ago Reply
voidsterr
The past...I left things back there :(
488d ago Reply
Soggycheeto
all of the above 🤩
489d ago Reply
s0_l0nl3y
Future because I'm lonley 😭
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