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@HandyPapaAm I just over reacting or reading too much into things?
So my boyfriends sister and I are the same age and she has her friends over all the time and idc abo ut that. It’s her one friend that I just can’t stand being around my boyfriend. She keeps asking him to fix her and her other friends cars- I wouldn’t mind bc my boyfriend is a car guy and he’s good with cars. But, one of her close friends that she recently fell out with had told me that she had liked my boyfriend. I told my boyfriend the second time she came over that I didn’t really like him being around her and he listened to me and I had thought he was going to respect my boundaries I guess. Three days ago he wasn’t answering me for two hours which would be normal bc he works a blue collar job so yk he’s pretty tired when he gets home. But his location was saying that he was in his parking lot which made no sense so I was thinking maybe he just accidentally left his phone in his car. Nope. He was fixing that girls truck and he said he didn’t want to tell bc he knew I would get mad- he’s right but I would’ve understood that she didn’t know how to change an air filter- that’s a five minute job BTW. But anyways he told me his sister was out there with them and then two were talking to each other and he did all the work and looked at other parts of the car for her. He’s never done anything to hurt me or anything that would cause me not to trust him. I’ve been cheated on and I know how dirty and slimy girls can be that’s why I quit being best friends with someone. Idk what do y’all think bc idk what to make of this situation. ... read more
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LeafyHaze
Be direct, and set a boundary with this chick. If he crosses it, he's not a good guy.
454d ago Reply
NonbinaryPlanet
I think you should trust your gut with this one (but if I were you I would talk to that girl and find out what's happening)
454d ago Reply
ShyAffair
You don't deserve him smh He told the deal, and you're still making everything a big deal
447d ago Reply
ComicEye
There are some missing variables here that actually could tell me whether or not this was a simple misunderstanding or something to worry about all together but plain and simply in the end , what it comes down to is this .... Trust your gut no matter what because a. It's your life and no amount of reasoning behind things can make you truly happy if you don't like what's going on in it and b. The worst feeling in the world is the I told myself feeling . No one likes to be the person who is already suffering and along with that suffering has the " I told myself " rhis or that and I still did it anyways mentality . That is the worst ! This is your life sweety , even if you make what you would consider the wrong decision in it . It will only make you appreciate other things . Besides , listening to a bunch of other people and choosing what one of them says for an action is a copout , so that you can throw the blame elsewhere when you are the one who listened to them anyways . Grow up a bit ( not meaning for this to sound mean ) because this is one of your lessons in life and unfortunately there aren't a lot of lessons that don't come with pain . Taking someone else's advice is just cheating yourself out of a lesson that you will be doomed to repeat later on . You can appreciate and be wary of how hot a stove burner can be by listening to another but until you actually get burned you will never truly understand why .....
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